If you’re considering a new pet, it’s very important to make sure that both the children and the adults in the household know what to expect before making a final decision.
For example, when children visualize a puppy, they often imagine themselves snuggling and petting the cuddly bundle of joy. What they don’t realize is that the puppy will also be jumping, scratching, nipping (a lot) and chewing their toys!
Parents also frequently underestimate the amount of work a puppy requires. Between feeding, walking, training, supervising, keeping the floor cleared of toys and shoes, veterinary appointments, cleanup and more, getting a puppy can seem like having another child.
Although children should have some responsibilities for taking care of the pet, parents need to realize that the majority of the pet care will fall upon the adults. If you already feel inundated by responsibilities, then a new pet, especially a young one, can significantly add to feeling overwhelmed.
If, after carefully considering the above, you all still agree that you want a dog or puppy, then your family is truly ready. The best course of action is to be prepared in advance so your new dog will make as smooth a transition as possible into your family. Following are some tips and resources to help you choose a dog, become educated and be prepared:
- Consider adopting an adult dog instead of a puppy. No matter what age dog you decide on, there are rescue organizations in your area to find both mixed and pure breed dogs. Contact your local animal shelter, or visit http://www.akc.org/breeds/rescue.cfm to find pure breed rescue groups.
- Get your child some books about dogs so they’ll know what to expect. An excellent choice is “Dogs and Puppies,” an Usborne First Pets book. In spite of it mentioning a cardboard box (I’d recommend a crate instead), the rest of the book is so fabulous that I recommend it highly. From choosing a dog, to feeding, training and brushing, it’s appropriately informative for kids of all ages. Other First Pets books include “Cats and Kittens,” “Hamsters” and “Rabbits.”
- Some books that can be invaluable to educate adults include: “Choosing a Shelter Dog,” by Bob Christiansen, “Childproofing Your Dog” and “Good Owners, Great Dogs,” by Brian Kilcommons and Sarah Wilson and “Everything You Need to Know About House Training Puppies & Adult Dogs,” by Lori Verni.
- Have all of your supplies ready before bringing your new pet home, including: Leash and collar, food and water bowls, crate, brush, cleanup supplies, chew toys, money for vet care and food, a gate or two and plans for training. For great prices and selection on all of these supplies, visit here.
Whether you decide to get a dog now or wait until your family is more ready, some advance planning will benefit all of the family members… including your pet!
Lori Verni-Fogarsi has been an author, speaker, small business consultant, and Certified Master Trainer for 18+ years. Her novel, “Momnesia,” (contemporary women’s fiction) has been designated a National Indie Excellence Book Awards Finalist, and her nonfiction book, “Everything You Need to Know About House Training Puppies and Adult Dogs,” has been widely acclaimed in its genre. To learn more, please visit www.LoriTheAuthor.com and join Lori on Facebook at www.facebook.com/LoriTheAuthor.
