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Please note: On April 2, 2019, I retired from offering website hosting and design, with very rare exceptions. I’m leaving this info here for posterity, but keep in mind that some of the sites I initially built may have been … Read More

Success. It has many different meanings, but the actual definition is: The accomplishment of one’s goals. There are many different goals we all have in life. Financial, health, relationship goals…the list could go on and on.… Read More

“You’re so lucky!” That sentence is very commonly spoken, yet extremely inaccurate. Unless, of course, you’re talking to someone who tripped and fell, and miraculously landed on a big cushion of money. Otherwise, the vast majority of the time it … Read More

Feeling stressed? Is it possible that, like mine was, your Facebook timeline is filled with things that make you feel like crud? The truth is, while there may be things we’re interested in, or even passionate about, being faced with … Read More

You may recall that I announced a while back that I was taking a break from writing. (That’s both true and not true: I haven’t released any more books, but I have been working on several new projects that won’t … Read More

So there I was, getting ready to do a big bathroom renovation. Working as my own general contractor, I knew I would be hiring some professionals, including a plumber, tile installer, etc. So I joined Angie’s List. At first, I … Read More

“If I read one more book riddled with errors, I’m going to go insane!” “I don’t understand how books are published in this condition.” “I want to support indie authors, but I can’t stand the errors anymore.” If any of … Read More

I’m a writer. I love writing. It makes me really happy when people read my books and let me know that it affected them positively, whether emotionally (with my novels or anthology), practically (such as with my dog training book), … Read More

“Momnesia,” contemporary women’s fiction/chick lit.Brickstone PublishingFeeling invisible in the throes of caring for her family, a suburban mom diagnoses herself with “Momnesia” and sets about finessing a new version of her old vivaciousness!More info & first two chapters freeBuy the … Read More

Should you get a dog, puppy, or other kind of pet as a gift? Read the article to learn about the many reasons why it may be best to allow the person to get their own pet instead.… Read More

My novel, “Unexpecting,” was entered into the 21st Annual Writer’s Digest Self Published Book Awards and I recently received the judge’s reply! I was extremely excited to learn that “Unexpecting” received a rating of 5 (the highest possible) in ALL … Read More

…And not in a good way. Not that there is a good way but let’s face it, if my chicken belly flap thing were to disappear while simultaneously hoisting my boobs where they used to be…okay, I’ll stop fantasizing now. … Read More

Erotica. Gasp! Upon hearing this word, many people automatically think “hard-core porn.” Romance. Sigh! Most people think of a love story, usually featuring a very masculine hero…and often, steamy love scenes. So what’s really the difference? Often, the love scenes … Read More

Reviews. People count on them for feedback from others, to help make informed buying decisions. Whether you’re buying a book or a coffee pot, you want to know that it’s going to be worth your money, and in the case … Read More

Telling it like it is I’m a “tell it like it is” person. Always have been, and likewise, I prefer to “hear it like it is” too. (Note that I didn’t necessarily say “always will be.” More on that later.) … Read More

So there I am, relaxing at my lake house for what is (horrifyingly) one of the first times this year, due to how overwhelmingly busy I’ve been. It’s the fourth of July, I am eating zucchini bread, watching for hummingbirds, … Read More

Yikes! The truth is, I am horribly behind on my shipping! (This article is from 2012, but still a fun read–we all get backed up on things sometimes, am I right?) I love to give stuff away because I appreciate … Read More

  Feeling invisible in the throes of caring for her family, a suburban mom sets about finessing a new version of her old vivaciousness! Momnesia (mahm-nee-zhuh -noun-) Loss of the memory of who you used to be. Caused by pregnancy, … Read More

The official book launch party for “Unexpecting” took place on April 18, 2013 at Chef’s Palette Restaurant and Bar in Cary, NC. It was a super fun night consisting of lots of celebrating combined with prize giving, book signing, and … Read More

If you’re like me, when you choose a book to read it feels like an investment of your free time, as well as some money! Here is where I provide you the opportunity to check out “Unexpecting,” just as if … Read More

Easy, Healthy Greek Chicken Recipe! (Or, when describing to kids, “Colorful Chickeny Stuff,” which makes them love it already!) I invented this dish about a month ago and it was a huge hit with my entire family—which, as you may … Read More

Times have changed so that it is now acceptable to run and scream in the library. Also, make and receive phone calls, shout across to others, and utilize the public computers to chat on Facebook for hours while people who … Read More

Save hundreds of dollars? Yes, please!… but not if it means eating spaghetti every night and never leaving the house. Increase square footage? Would love to, but who the heck wants to move? Do less chores? Um, yeah… most of … Read More

So there I am, out with my girlfriends for the rare ladies’ night out. I’d taken all the appropriate steps to get ready for such an event—which as a mom of four included not only normal things like showering, but … Read More

Editing. This is a word that either scares the heck out of people or comforts them, depending upon what their experience has been. Are you looking for my green editing challenge? Look for the green throughout this page and at … Read More

With the holiday season upon us, I think it’s safe to say that we can all use a good laugh and a little rest & relaxation to offset all the responsibilities. Below, is a special excerpt from “Momnesia,” involving Christmas. … Read More

No matter what kind of business you have, building a strong Facebook following can be helpful in keeping yourself top-of-mind with existing or potential clients. Yet that can seem easier said than done! You’ve set up a Page, added some … Read More

In celebration of the Thanksgiving season, I thought it would be fun to share an excerpt from “Momnesia!” The main character has been on a quest of self-discovery, and ponders the question: “Why are we afraid to simply say what … Read More

Quick! What’s the first thing you feel when you hear “indie authors?” Be honest! Chances are that you, like most people, experience some reservation, even though you yourself may be either an independent author or a huge supporter. Why do … Read More

Twitter. People either love it or hate it but if you ask around, you’ll often get a groan. Why? I can think of a lot of reasons, especially when I was new to Twitter. Common Objections to Twitter How much … Read More

What in the world is a Momnesia Party, you ask? With a name like that, it’s got to be good, and I am excited to tell you! A Momnesia party is… well, whatever we want it to be! Each event … Read More

Hi there, and thanks for visiting! Please enjoy these photos from just a few of my book club events! For testimonials, please scroll down to “Comments.” Have you had a book club event? Please add your testimonial to the comments … Read More

As an author, I get very excited when people read my books, and book clubs are some of my favorites!… There’s something about a bunch of people discussing the issues (whether funny or heart-wrenching) found in my stories that makes … Read More

Dating. Exciting times, right? Dating your husband? Um, possibly not so much! Let’s face it ladies, going on the same dates with the same guy for years and years (and years!) could easily become boring, to put it kindly. Scientifically, … Read More

Volunteering. It’s all part of being a mom, right? We volunteer at school, at church, at playgroup, etc. In fact, some of us volunteer so much, it could be considered a full-time job. Of course, there are some joys to … Read More

I hope you’ll enjoy these e-cards and that they’ll bring you a chuckle! Please feel free to pin them, share them, etc! (I would appreciate if you will please link to my site www.LoriTheAuthor.com). Momnesia: Find Balance! http://goo.gl/911KP Momnesia: Find … Read More

We all want our marriages to work… I mean, who doesn’t want to be happy, right? And yes, we’ve all read the articles about communication, making love in different rooms of the house, and other such tidbits. Now, I’m not … Read More

You know how sometimes you find an item that may seem small, but actually makes your life just a teeny bit (or even a whole lot) better? And then you feel compelled to tell your friends because you want them … Read More

As I begin this article, I feel compelled to disclose that although I do have two children, 11 and 14, and two step children, 17 and 19, (their ages on the date I wrote this article), I do not hold … Read More

Dear Diary, I’m exhausted. Truly I am, and I don’t see a reprieve anywhere in sight! Today alone, I’ve officiated a goldfish funeral, compiled paperwork for a tax audit, cleaned up cat puke, breastfed the baby six times, wrote three … Read More