5 Reasons Why I Recommend a Gmail Address, Even for Business
My website clients often ask me what I recommend for an e-mail address. Wouldn’t it be the most professional to use their website? (For example theirname@theirwebsite.com.) My answer? Maybe, but actually, no. And here’s why. Five Reasons to Use … Read More
Website Services
Please note: On April 2, 2019, I retired from offering website hosting and design, with very rare exceptions. I’m leaving this info here for posterity, but keep in mind that some of the sites I initially built may have been … Read More
How to Be Successful By Doing Everything Backward
Success. It has many different meanings, but the actual definition is: The accomplishment of one’s goals. There are many different goals we all have in life. Financial, health, relationship goals…the list could go on and on.… Read More
There’s No Such Thing As “Being Lucky”
“You’re so lucky!” That sentence is very commonly spoken, yet extremely inaccurate. Unless, of course, you’re talking to someone who tripped and fell, and miraculously landed on a big cushion of money. Otherwise, the vast majority of the time it … Read More
Reduce Facebook Stress in 10 Minutes
Feeling stressed? Is it possible that, like mine was, your Facebook timeline is filled with things that make you feel like crud? The truth is, while there may be things we’re interested in, or even passionate about, being faced with … Read More
Kitchen Renovation: Part One
You may recall that I announced a while back that I was taking a break from writing. (That’s both true and not true: I haven’t released any more books, but I have been working on several new projects that won’t … Read More
The Truth About Angie’s List
So there I was, getting ready to do a big bathroom renovation. Working as my own general contractor, I knew I would be hiring some professionals, including a plumber, tile installer, etc. So I joined Angie’s List. At first, I … Read More
Care About Books? You Can Help!
“If I read one more book riddled with errors, I’m going to go insane!” “I don’t understand how books are published in this condition.” “I want to support indie authors, but I can’t stand the errors anymore.” If any of … Read More
Popular Author Leaves Industry, Waiting for it to Mature
I’m a writer. I love writing. It makes me really happy when people read my books and let me know that it affected them positively, whether emotionally (with my novels or anthology), practically (such as with my dog training book), … Read More
Find Yourself Series
“Momnesia,” contemporary women’s fiction/chick lit.Brickstone PublishingFeeling invisible in the throes of caring for her family, a suburban mom diagnoses herself with “Momnesia” and sets about finessing a new version of her old vivaciousness!More info & first two chapters freeBuy the … Read More
Pets As Gifts?
Should you get a dog, puppy, or other kind of pet as a gift? Read the article to learn about the many reasons why it may be best to allow the person to get their own pet instead.… Read More
Writer’s Digest Book Awards!
My novel, “Unexpecting,” was entered into the 21st Annual Writer’s Digest Self Published Book Awards and I recently received the judge’s reply! I was extremely excited to learn that “Unexpecting” received a rating of 5 (the highest possible) in ALL … Read More
I’m Going Under the Knife!
…And not in a good way. Not that there is a good way but let’s face it, if my chicken belly flap thing were to disappear while simultaneously hoisting my boobs where they used to be…okay, I’ll stop fantasizing now. … Read More
Romance -v- Erotica: What’s the Difference?
Erotica. Gasp! Upon hearing this word, many people automatically think “hard-core porn.” Romance. Sigh! Most people think of a love story, usually featuring a very masculine hero…and often, steamy love scenes. So what’s really the difference? Often, the love scenes … Read More
The Booking Truth
Reviews. People count on them for feedback from others, to help make informed buying decisions. Whether you’re buying a book or a coffee pot, you want to know that it’s going to be worth your money, and in the case … Read More
Tell It & Hear It Like It Is… or No?
Telling it like it is I’m a “tell it like it is” person. Always have been, and likewise, I prefer to “hear it like it is” too. (Note that I didn’t necessarily say “always will be.” More on that later.) … Read More
My Book Has Won an Award!
So there I am, relaxing at my lake house for what is (horrifyingly) one of the first times this year, due to how overwhelmingly busy I’ve been. It’s the fourth of July, I am eating zucchini bread, watching for hummingbirds, … Read More
Confessions of an Author Who is Behind on Her Shipping!
Yikes! The truth is, I am horribly behind on my shipping! (This article is from 2012, but still a fun read–we all get backed up on things sometimes, am I right?) I love to give stuff away because I appreciate … Read More
Books Moms Love!
Feeling invisible in the throes of caring for her family, a suburban mom sets about finessing a new version of her old vivaciousness! Momnesia (mahm-nee-zhuh -noun-) Loss of the memory of who you used to be. Caused by pregnancy, … Read More
“Unexpecting” Book Launch Party!
The official book launch party for “Unexpecting” took place on April 18, 2013 at Chef’s Palette Restaurant and Bar in Cary, NC. It was a super fun night consisting of lots of celebrating combined with prize giving, book signing, and … Read More
Free First Chapter of Unexpecting
If you’re like me, when you choose a book to read it feels like an investment of your free time, as well as some money! Here is where I provide you the opportunity to check out “Unexpecting,” just as if … Read More
Slow Cooker: Easy, Healthy Greek Chicken (aka Colorful Chickeny Stuff)
Easy, Healthy Greek Chicken Recipe! (Or, when describing to kids, “Colorful Chickeny Stuff,” which makes them love it already!) I invented this dish about a month ago and it was a huge hit with my entire family—which, as you may … Read More
The Library is Now For Running and Screaming
Times have changed so that it is now acceptable to run and scream in the library. Also, make and receive phone calls, shout across to others, and utilize the public computers to chat on Facebook for hours while people who … Read More
How to Save Hundreds & Increase Square Footage While Doing Less!
Save hundreds of dollars? Yes, please!… but not if it means eating spaghetti every night and never leaving the house. Increase square footage? Would love to, but who the heck wants to move? Do less chores? Um, yeah… most of … Read More
Chubby, Shiny, Old, Married, & Working On It!
So there I am, out with my girlfriends for the rare ladies’ night out. I’d taken all the appropriate steps to get ready for such an event—which as a mom of four included not only normal things like showering, but … Read More
Editing Services
Editing. This is a word that either scares the heck out of people or comforts them, depending upon what their experience has been. Are you looking for my green editing challenge? Look for the green throughout this page and at … Read More
Christmas Excerpt!
With the holiday season upon us, I think it’s safe to say that we can all use a good laugh and a little rest & relaxation to offset all the responsibilities. Below, is a special excerpt from “Momnesia,” involving Christmas. … Read More
Building Your Facebook Following
No matter what kind of business you have, building a strong Facebook following can be helpful in keeping yourself top-of-mind with existing or potential clients. Yet that can seem easier said than done! You’ve set up a Page, added some … Read More
Turkey Leg Excerpt from “Momnesia”
In celebration of the Thanksgiving season, I thought it would be fun to share an excerpt from “Momnesia!” The main character has been on a quest of self-discovery, and ponders the question: “Why are we afraid to simply say what … Read More
10 Tips to Being a QUALITY Indie Author
Quick! What’s the first thing you feel when you hear “indie authors?” Be honest! Chances are that you, like most people, experience some reservation, even though you yourself may be either an independent author or a huge supporter. Why do … Read More
How to Effectively Use Twitter Without Dedicating Your Whole Day to It
Twitter. People either love it or hate it but if you ask around, you’ll often get a groan. Why? I can think of a lot of reasons, especially when I was new to Twitter. Common Objections to Twitter How much … Read More
Momnesia Parties!
What in the world is a Momnesia Party, you ask? With a name like that, it’s got to be good, and I am excited to tell you! A Momnesia party is… well, whatever we want it to be! Each event … Read More
Book Club Photos & Testimonials!
Hi there, and thanks for visiting! Please enjoy these photos from just a few of my book club events! For testimonials, please scroll down to “Comments.” Have you had a book club event? Please add your testimonial to the comments … Read More
Specials for Book Clubs!
As an author, I get very excited when people read my books, and book clubs are some of my favorites!… There’s something about a bunch of people discussing the issues (whether funny or heart-wrenching) found in my stories that makes … Read More
How to Date Your Husband
Dating. Exciting times, right? Dating your husband? Um, possibly not so much! Let’s face it ladies, going on the same dates with the same guy for years and years (and years!) could easily become boring, to put it kindly. Scientifically, … Read More
The Volunteer Vacuum: Knowing When to Say “No”
Volunteering. It’s all part of being a mom, right? We volunteer at school, at church, at playgroup, etc. In fact, some of us volunteer so much, it could be considered a full-time job. Of course, there are some joys to … Read More
Momnesia E-Cards!
I hope you’ll enjoy these e-cards and that they’ll bring you a chuckle! Please feel free to pin them, share them, etc! (I would appreciate if you will please link to my site www.LoriTheAuthor.com). Momnesia: Find Balance! http://goo.gl/911KP Momnesia: Find … Read More
Uncustomary Tips for a Successful Marriage
We all want our marriages to work… I mean, who doesn’t want to be happy, right? And yes, we’ve all read the articles about communication, making love in different rooms of the house, and other such tidbits. Now, I’m not … Read More
Little Things That Make Life Better
You know how sometimes you find an item that may seem small, but actually makes your life just a teeny bit (or even a whole lot) better? And then you feel compelled to tell your friends because you want them … Read More
Helicopter Parenting: Does it Help or Hurt?
As I begin this article, I feel compelled to disclose that although I do have two children, 11 and 14, and two step children, 17 and 19, (their ages on the date I wrote this article), I do not hold … Read More
File Under Exhausted
Dear Diary, I’m exhausted. Truly I am, and I don’t see a reprieve anywhere in sight! Today alone, I’ve officiated a goldfish funeral, compiled paperwork for a tax audit, cleaned up cat puke, breastfed the baby six times, wrote three … Read More
Realistic Ways to Balance “Momminess” and “Sexiness”
“Balancing momminess and sexiness? Yeah, right!” This is the most common response I hear when I tell people about my novel, “Momnesia.” Until people read it, of course, at which point their response changes to, “The woman in that book … Read More
On Mother’s Day & Beyond: Realistic Daily Decadences for Moms
Do you ever feel as if you’re on a treadmill? Running from one responsibility to the next, driving yourself to as-near-perfection-as-possible while juggling ten balls, making you feel like an exhausted version of a circus triathlete? If so, you’re not … Read More
Getting Comfortable With Asking & Delegating (A Concept You’ll Both Love & Hate!)
I can remember my first serious boyfriend, back when I was nineteen, saying, “Baby, all you gotta do is ask.” Sounds simple, right? So then why is it so difficult for so many of us women to ask for what … Read More
10 Tips for Balancing Momminess and Sexiness!
As a novelist, one of the most common conversations I have with people is, “What is your book about?” to which I reply, “An average mom trying to balance ‘momminess’ and ‘sexiness.’” This, of course, is followed by all sorts … Read More
Moms’ Self-Esteem: Are We ‘Waiting’ to Get Our Sexy Back?
Moms. We’re just so… mommyish. Which is a good thing, for the most part! I mean, it’s important to take good care of the children we’ve brought into this world and for most of us, our “momminess” is not the … Read More
What Would a Woman Do?- Balancing Momminess & Sexiness (On Mother’s Day & Beyond)
Balancing momminess and sexiness. This is one of the themes in my novel, “Momnesia,” and when I tell people about it, their most common response is, “Sexiness? Yeah, right!” As women, we have so many responsibilities. Between kids, work, pets, … Read More
Nora Ephron: A Different Kind of Tribute
When it comes to celebrities, the honest truth is, I don’t usually care much. I mean, of course I don’t wish them harm, but I also don’t usually get torn up over the things that go on in their personal … Read More
Using Obedience As A Way Of Life
Often, when people think of obedience training, they think of “perfect” dogs. Show dogs, police canines, or at the very least, extremely obedient pets who follow every given command. While having a very obedient dog does have its benefits, even … Read More
Teaching Your Dog To Swim
Most of us know that almost all dogs like to swim… particularly retrievers and other sporting dogs. However, regardless of your dog’s breed or mix of breeds, it’s very important that your pet be taught how to swim, rather than … Read More
Should You ‘Get Rid Of’ Your Dog?
Animal shelters are overloaded with homeless pets because there are far more animals than there are people looking to adopt. Rescue organizations can be seen just about every weekend hosting adoption events, and even television and radio stations have spots … Read More
A Perfectly Good Dog
I was recently watching television when a commercial came on, asking viewers to support the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA). Throughout the piece, numerous animals were pictured; dogs and cats of every age, size and … Read More
Obedience Is Not Just For ‘Show Dogs’!
When people think of obedience training, they often visualize “perfect” dogs being led around a show ring by a professional handler, or perhaps working dogs who are on duty doing their part to assist handicapped people, the police, or rescue … Read More
Now Is The Time!
When spring is in the air, most people’s schedules and lifestyles change quite a bit. More time is spent outdoors, kids start to have more after school activities, and visitors come into your yard more frequently. Just as these and … Read More
Deeds or Breeds?
I once saw a bumper sticker that said, “Deeds, not breeds.” Although I understand (and to some extent agree) with that slogan, I also firmly believe that you can have both deeds and breeds at the same time. What I’m … Read More
You’ve Got To Be ‘Cruel’ To Be Kind!
It’s interesting to observe how many pet owners are initially very hesitant to train their dog. However, most people change their minds once they realize that in order for your dog to enjoy certain freedoms, he must first have some … Read More
Dog a Deer? Don’t Chase Him!
Has your dog ever been a “deer?” Obviously not in the literal sense, of course he has always been a dog! However, most dog owners will agree that at one point or another, we’ve all experienced our dog acting like … Read More
Car Behavior: Important for Safety
Dogs love riding in the car, right? Most do, and some may even seem to love it too much! Jumping around, trying to sit on your lap, barking at everything; for some dogs, a ride in the car gets them … Read More
A Bored Dog Leads To Problems
One of the things that can really help humans to understand their pets is to realize how dogs think. Part of this is remembering that the majority of canines have been bred to do a job for many, many generations. … Read More
Is Your Dog Ruining Your Yard?
As spring warms the soil, our lawns, flowers, trees and bushes begin growing. It is at this time of year that many people work on sprucing things up to make their property look pretty. However, many dogs and puppies seem … Read More
Help Your Canine Cope With Thunderstorms and Fireworks
Some might say that summer is a season of strange noises. With fireworks frequently fired on Memorial and Independence Days, and thunder that often accompanies storms, many dogs find these strange sounds difficult to deal with. Whether your dog barks, … Read More
A Place To Live With Your Dog
One issue that can present a significant challenge to pet owners is finding a place to live that allows dogs. Particularly for people who rent, this can be a big problem! Even those who do own their own house or … Read More
Why Socialize Your Dog?
Most pet owners have heard that it’s important to socialize your dog. However, unless you really understand why, it’s hard to imagine why your household pet would need to be comfortable with so many things. Further, people sometimes worry that … Read More
Dog Shedding Problems
Unless you have a “hypoallergenic” dog (one with hair instead of fur), chances are that, particularly when spring comes along, your pet is beginning to shed his winter coat and will be trading it in for a somewhat thinner summer … Read More
Enjoying Pets Can Be A Low Cost Hobby
When gas prices are high, (or there are other economic strains), most people feel the pinch in other areas of their lives. Newscasts report that fewer people take long road trips during vacation times, and air travel also becomes less … Read More
Irresponsible Pet Owners Ruin It For Others
Originally from New York, I have enjoyed being a North Carolina resident since 2004. When it comes to pets, one of the big differences between the two locales is the level of “pet friendliness.” For example, on Long Island in … Read More
Saving Your Home’s Contents From Your Pet
Does your dog seem to think that many things around your home are canine cuisine? Many dogs, especially puppies, tend to munch on things like remote controls, paper towels, food trash, and even unmentionables from the bathroom wastebasket. For many … Read More
Bunnies, Chicks, and Roosters, Oh My!
Years ago, when I bought my first home in NY, my family and I excitedly settled in to our first night in our new home. Needless to say, it had been an exhausting day complete with lifting, carrying, setting up, … Read More
People Food Perils
Most people know that some foods are dangerous for dogs, such as chocolate or bones that may splinter. However, there are several other foods and items you may be unaware of that can be very harmful to dogs, including: raisins … Read More
Spending Time With Your Canine Valentine
Most people will agree that even if you have a “significant other,” Valentine’s Day is a time for showing all the important people in your life some love and appreciation, and our pets are no exception! (Yes, I did just … Read More
You Know What They Say About “Assuming”
Just in case you’re not familiar, what they say is that when you assume, you make an “ass” out of “u” and “me.” (Catchy, eh?) I don’t know if I would go so far as to say that I, or … Read More
Apparently, I’m Old & I Didn’t Even Know It!
A year-and-a-half ago, I turned 40. (This article was written in 2010.) Not so very old, right? That’s what I thought until I discovered that yes, in fact, at least according to the medical community, it is old… not that … Read More
You Might Have Momnesia If…
MOMNESIA (mahm-nee-zhuh) -noun- Loss of the memory of who you used to be. Caused by pregnancy, play dates, and trying to keep the house cleaner than the Joneses. My novel, “Momnesia,” is about a mom who, feeling invisible in the … Read More
Finding Balance Using Pinterest!
If you haven’t started using Pinterest yet, surely you’ve at least heard of it. What is it? An online “pinboard” where you can keep track of things you like, or are “pinterested” in. I admit, at first glance, my reaction … Read More
Winter is Cold and So Am I
Winter. It’s cold, right? In many places, yes, but not so much where I live, which is in North Carolina. I mean, I do have to wear a light jacket here and there, but compared to New York, where I … Read More
I Refuse to Buy Groceries For My Family
I refuse to buy groceries for my family. It’s true! I do this several times a year and while my family hates it, I love it. You see, I get tired of working around the giant cases of Carnation Instant … Read More
Outside the Box Ideas for Small Indie Bookstores
The publishing industry is changing/has changed. This we all know, and I articulated a bit in my recent blog post “Let’s All Wear Our Grown Up Pants.” The series continues with today’s post, in which we discuss methods of how indie bookstores … Read More
Let’s All Wear Our Grown-Up Pants: An author speaks frankly about the publishing industry.
The publishing industry is changing (has changed). This is not news. Well… it is news, but in my opinion, old news by now. So what’s the “new news?” It’s what we’re all going to do about it. Let’s face it … Read More
Is the Amazon Scandal Backfiring?
This holiday season, (this was written in 2011), Amazon is getting a lot of press coverage… and not in a good way. There’s a huge backlash from the book industry regarding Amazon’s Price Check App, which allows people to scan … Read More
Tiny Businesses Really Matter
Small businesses. Big businesses. We know that they all make an impact on the economy, jobs, and ultimately, our communities. However, it’s one thing to say that and it’s another to experience it firsthand. This being an election year, (this … Read More
Opposite Authors; Equally Astounding
I’ve been reading a lot lately. I’m not sure if you do the same, but I tend to go through phases with reading; I read either a lot or a little (but I never don’t read at all). Sometimes I … Read More
Tiny the Dog From “Unexpecting,” the novel by Lori Verni-Fogarsi
We writers often find inspiration from unusual places… strangers at the post office, people we know a bit better than that, and so on. When I was writing “Unexpecting,” one of the characters I had a lot of fun with … Read More
Do You Assume First-Person Writing is True?
As a writer, I’ve always enjoyed writing in the first-person more than third-person. (I bent over to tie my shoe, rather than she bent over to tie her shoe). I find that telling the story from the point of view … Read More
Christmas is Here! (Gasp, gasp, pant, pant!)
Holiday hoopla… so very joyous. No, seriously! Of course, before now there were all of the Christmas preparation setbacks along the way: One of my cats becoming terribly ill, thus requiring numerous expensive and traumatic vet visits and needing to … Read More
Tell-It-Like-It-Is Thanks
I think it’s safe to say that most of us are quite thankful for many things, and when our turn comes around at the Thanksgiving table, it is likely that we’ll share them aloud: food, clothing, our homes, our family … Read More
Five Things I Learned This Week
1. Clubbing, which begins no earlier than 11 pm, was a lot more fun when I didn’t get up at 6 am every day because my kids’ school days start so early. And when I had friends who wanted to … Read More
If Only All Ironies Were Funny
I’d really rather not visit my husband’s family in Michigan during winter, I thought to myself. We’ll catch pneumonia! My wheels started spinning as I tried to figure a way to go and visit family, (who we’d like to see … Read More
Marble Notebook Mystery
Between preschool, elementary school, and now middle school, suffice it to say that I have plenty of experience with the need for marble notebooks. More specifically, I am accustomed to the annual deficit of marble notebooks–right when you need them–at … Read More
Women and Friendship
Women and friendship, what’s the first thing that comes to mind? Close-knit girlfriends who are there for you always, through thick and thin, bringing bottles of wine in your time of need? Who you can call at 3am just because … Read More
Dog Days of Summer For Parents
I wish I were a dog. No, really! If I were a dog, I could lie around and sleep all day, have several meals served to me by doting people who love me, play when I’m in the mood, and… … Read More
Lake Lover’s Ordeal
We just returned from a five-day vacation at the lake house with anywhere from four and six kids at any given time. I know, I know, I can hear you gasp. Just like my husband and I gasped at the … Read More
Why Bother Cleaning a House, Anyway?
Cleaning. Sometimes it seems so pointless. Other times it seems so mandatory. I mean really, for whom are we cleaning, anyway? The kids? Surely they not only don’t care, but would actually prefer if things were left messy, thereby disguising … Read More
A Day in the Life of a Writer
I’m a writer. I’m also a mom, a homemaker, and oh yeah… a small business consultant. Having been a writer for more than 15 years now, I’ve tried a variety of daily schedules, none of which seem to be perfect. … Read More
Confessions of a Type-A Octopus
Is it possible to have a successful career and a good family life, both at the same time? That is today’s question, and I’m here to attest that it is. And it isn’t. Both. Obviously, many of us manage to … Read More
Educational Conference, Complete!
As many of you know, I’ve been preparing to teach at the AMTA Educational Conference in Hickory, NC, and yesterday was the day! It was a beautiful day for driving and I was very fortunate to have a close girlfriend … Read More
Preventing Overly-Territorial Behavior
Should you encourage your dog to bark at repairmen, visitors, or passers-by? People often think that’s good, but it can become a real problem. Read the article to learn why!… Read More
Setting Limits for Your Canine Companion
When it comes to our beloved pets, many people don’t like to set too many limits, while even the most strict of pet owners will usually admit that they like to spoil their pet sometimes. Of course, a little spoiling … Read More
Socialization is Not Just for Fun
Socializing your dog is a very important aspect toward having a well-adjusted, well-behaved pet. Of course, it’s also usually fun to take your dog for walks, to the park, or even for a ride in the car. But even if … Read More
Most Popular Dog Names
One of the fun parts of getting a pet is picking out a name. I have seen some trends come and go during 15 years as a dog trainer, while others seem to be consistently popular. For example, in the … Read More
Dog Walking Etiquette
Although to many of us, the “rules” are common sense, there are of course people who either don’t realize or choose not to follow the etiquette of dog walking. In order to clear up any potential confusion, I thought I … Read More
Grandma’s Gift Puppy: A True Story
Once upon a time, there was a Grandma. She has always loved golden retrievers and has enjoyed their exuberant, loving personalities throughout her lifetime. Unfortunately, Grandma’s latest golden retriever passed away at the age of 14. She loved that dog … Read More
Keep Your Dog Busy on Christmas
With all the holiday festivities during Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s, it’s important to remember your pet when you do your holiday shopping. Not only will your dog enjoy a nice new toy or two from Santa on Christmas morning, … Read More
Holiday Puppy Proofing
“Ahh… the Christmas tree… a giant stick! And it even has balls hanging on it! It’s the dog toy of my dreams!” This is likely how your puppy or young dog views this central holiday decoration that graces your home. … Read More
Halloween and Thanksgiving and Christmas, Oh My!
It’s the first week of October and as the air begins to cool also comes the reality that there are many holidays coming just around the corner. And holidays mean candy in bowls, food on counters, doors opening, guests arriving, … Read More
Do You Have Reservations for Your Pet?
After a lifetime of being self-employed, I’ve gotten used to the seasonal fluctuations of owning a business, many of which are completely unforeseeable even after all this time. However, there are some things that are always predictable, and one of … Read More
Preparing Your Dog for Ghosts and Goblins
Halloween can be a fun time of year. With all sorts of fall festivals, costumes, trick-or-treating, and candy, most households, both with and without children, will join in the festivities to some extent. While this can be a fun time … Read More
Are You Telling Your Dog To ‘Banana?’
One of the most misunderstood commands in dog training is the “come” command. For some reason, we humans realize that we have to teach our dogs how to “sit” and “stay,” but somehow we expect them to automatically know what … Read More
Withholding… a Difficult Housebreaking Problem
One of the most difficult housebreaking problems that can occur with a puppy or adult dog is when they don’t want to “make” in front of you outside. This can be a huge problem for pet owners who walk and … Read More
Toys Are For Dogs
Chewing is one of the most common problems we come across as dog trainers. In some households, the damage is vast, involving things such as sofas, carpeting, moulding, and more. But in many households, particularly ones with puppies, there is … Read More
Bringing Your Outside Dog In
When the weather starts getting cold, I often start receiving calls and emails from folks wanting to know how to get their “outside dog” to behave inside. Some people say that they had been doing their dog a favor by … Read More
Puppies Bite!
Getting a puppy is a very exciting time. Perhaps you’ve been waiting for the time to be “right,” or maybe you just fell in love with a puppy at an adopt-a-thon. Either way, once you get the puppy home, the … Read More
Preparing Your Dog for a New Baby
Having a baby is one of the most exciting times of life and will involve a big adjustment for everyone in the household, even your pets. Just as you make lots of preparations for your baby to arrive, it is … Read More
Pretending You Have No Fence Can Lead to a Well Trained Dog
Most people who have a dog want to make sure he’s properly trained and well-behaved. Some things that are of top priority include being reliably housebroken (no accidents in the house), and behaving nicely both indoors and out. One of … Read More
Puppy Exposure Dilemma
Most people who get a young puppy are told not to expose their dog to outdoor areas until vaccines are finished. There are lots of airborne viruses that can be contracted as well as a multitude of worms and illnesses … Read More
Doggy New Year Resolutions
With holiday festivities coming to a close and a new year beginning, this is a very common time of year to set new goals and resolve to accomplish them. With cooler temperatures outdoors, no big events on the horizon, and … Read More
Crate Training for Cats?
Getting a new pet can be an exciting and confusing time for both the humans and the animal/s. While dog training is my specialty, being a trainer has also led to numerous opportunities to work with other pets too, particularly … Read More
Good Timing Creates Better Results With Dog Training
Imagine you just finished grilling a beautiful filet mignon steak. You realize that you forgot the steak sauce, so you walk away from the table to go to the refrigerator and get it. Out of the corner of your eye, … Read More
Benefits of a Dog Toy Box
Dog toys are a very important part of owning a dog or puppy. Since dogs enjoy chewing, the purpose of dog toys is to provide your pet with appropriate items to chew so he doesn’t chew other things around your … Read More
Consistency is the Key to Dog Training
When it comes to dog training, there are many aspects that contribute to the success of working with your dog. Things such as supervision, practice, and providing leadership are all necessary in order to obtain your goals. However, another factor … Read More
Socializing Your Puppy With Wearing a Leash
Getting a new puppy is such an exciting time… and also a big project for humans! Young puppies in particular need to learn every single thing “from scratch,” ranging from housebreaking to obedience to even simple things such as wearing … Read More
What Kind of Dog is Easiest to Train?
“What kind of dog is the easiest to train?” This is one of the most common questions asked of a dog trainer. Most of the time, people are wanting to hear about a certain breed that is more malleable, expecting … Read More
Sock Stealing and Other Canine Crimes
Ask anyone who has ever had a puppy and they will surely tell you that one of a puppy’s favorite activities is mischievously snooping around the house and finding items to “steal,” such as socks, paper towels, Barbies, and more. … Read More
Impulse Purchases are for Shoes, Not Pets
With the average life span of a dog being about 15 years, getting a puppy or dog is a huge commitment. It means that you will have to pay for food, veterinary care, grooming, and other expenses, as well as … Read More
Thinking with a Pack Mentality
“Dogs are pack animals.” This is a widely known fact, but although we might know it, it can be quite challenging for humans to truly understand it and apply it in our daily relationships with our pets. To summarize, applying … Read More
Submissive or Excitement Urinating
Some dogs have a problem wherein they urinate a bit when they’re very excited or feeling submissive. This can be very frustrating for pet owners who often feel that they can’t even say hello to their dog without having to … Read More
What to Look for in a Reputable Breeder
If you’re considering adding a new puppy to your family and have an affinity for a certain breed, you will need to do some research to find just the right breeder from whom to purchase your puppy. While it’s exciting … Read More
Half an Hour a Day… Keeps Mischief Away
After being a dog trainer for over twelve years, I’ve noticed several questions people ask about my career on a regular basis. Some of the most common ones include, “Which kind of dog is the easiest to train?”, “Have you … Read More
Packing a Doggy Backpack
Many pet owners find it fun to bring their dog along when going out for the day. Whether a day at the park, a trip to obedience class or a longer outing, it’s a good idea to bring along some … Read More
Schedule Changes for Dogs and Puppies
When the lazy days of summer begin to come to an end, many people’s schedules undergo big changes. While temperatures may still be a little bit summery, many people’s schedules will not. For many teachers, students and parents, the beginning … Read More
Trimming Dog or Puppy Nails
Taking care of your dog or puppy’s nails is just another aspect of caring for your pet. However, compared to ear cleaning, bathing and brushing, many people have a particularly difficult time with the “canine pedicure.” A surprising number of … Read More
Neglected Dogs: In Neighborhoods, No Time for Dog
Whether a pet lover or not, just about everyone will experience an occasional pang of heartbreak when they know of an animal who is clearly neglected. Some cases of neglect are blatantly obvious. For example, the dog who is tied … Read More
Neighborhood Dog Problems
Well-behaved dogs can be enjoyable parts of the community. For example, friendly pets on leashes who accompany their families on after dinner walks are a pleasure to stop and pet. Sweet ones that frolic with children as they play in … Read More
Dog Mounting, Humping, Offensive Sniffing
Of course, we all know that dogs are dogs, not people. However, when it comes to certain behaviors, humans are sometimes offended or embarrassed by their pets! Some of the things that dogs do may seem ill mannered to humans, … Read More
Hot Weather/Summer Tips for Dogs
In most parts of the country, when summer sets in, there is no question as to what the weather will be each day. Undoubtedly it will be hot! For dogs, whose normal body temperatures are warmer than that of humans, … Read More
Admitting an Aggresssion Problem
For most people, our relationships with our pets are strong emotional bonds, and behavior problems can be pretty upsetting to deal with. Even more difficult is when a normally sweet, affectionate pet does something uncharacteristic, like biting someone, growling or … Read More
Insect Protection for Dogs
Just as fleas, ticks and mosquitoes are a concern for humans, they are also an issue for our pets. Not only are they annoying, but they can pose a serious health hazard through the diseases they may transmit. Of course, … Read More
Fence Jumping Dogs
Having a dog who jumps your fence is possibly one of the most annoying dog behavior problems to have. Not only is it dangerous for your pet, who may end up out in the street, but it can be very … Read More
Helping a New Dog or Puppy Adjust to Your Home
When you get a new pet, one of the top priorities is to make sure that he adjusts well to his new home environment. While humans are usually excited about their new furry family member, a new dog or puppy … Read More
Stopping Dogs or Puppies From Eating Things Outside
Grass, sticks, dirt and even rocks… these are a few of the things many puppies and some adult dogs will pick up and play with or eat when spending time outside. While simply chasing a stick and bringing it to … Read More
Would You Bring a Wild Animal Into Your Home?
Chances are, you wouldn’t consider bringing a wild animal into your home. After all, if you caught a squirrel and brought it into your house to live, you probably wouldn’t be surprised if it chewed your couch, ate your plants … Read More
Safety Tips for Kids: Loose Dogs
The majority of pet owners are responsible about keeping their pets on a leash or confined to their property. However, there are occasions when someone’s dog may get out of their house or yard and unfortunately, there are also some … Read More
How Many Incidents Equal a Problem?
For most people, our relationships with our pets are strong emotional bonds, and behavior problems can be pretty upsetting to deal with. Even more difficult, is when a normally sweet, affectionate pet does something uncharacteristic, like biting someone, growling or … Read More
What to Do if You Find a Dog
Finding a dog can be a real dilemma. In some cases a dog will simply come up to you, and other times you may see one wandering in a lost sort of way. In either case, most kindhearted dog lovers … Read More
Tips for Two Puppies
For some families, having two puppies can be double the fun. Sometimes it’s a matter of not being able to choose just one, and other times they simply want two pups so they’ll have each other to be with. There … Read More
Introducing Dogs and Cats
Contrary to the adage, “fighting like cats and dogs,” most dogs and cats can get along nicely together. Perhaps you’d like to add another pet to your family or maybe you will be caring for a friend’s pet while they’re … Read More
Dog’s Fear of Thunderstorms
Spring and summer are times of year that can be difficult for some pets and their owners. While most dogs are fine with thunderstorms, others are downright traumatized. With symptoms ranging from barking when they hear a thunderclap, to severe … Read More
Getting Rid Of Your Dog
Most people love their pets and feel that they’re an important part of the family. No sooner would they get “rid of” their dog than they would their own children if there were a problem. Unfortunately, there are also millions … Read More
Should You Get a Dog for Your Dog?
Many people consider getting another dog because they want a friend and companion for the dog they already have. In some cases, this can be a great idea… assuming that the family also wants an additional pet for themselves. Not … Read More
Saving for Your Pet’s Retirement… a Personal Story
Upon reading the title of this article, you’re probably already thinking that my brain must be clogged with dog hair if I’m suggesting that you set up a 401K for your dog. However, while I’m not suggesting your dog retire … Read More
Mailman Mystery
Dogs and mailmen. For many people, this instantly conjures up images of the traditional cartoon dog chasing the letter carrier down the street. Thankfully, most dogs don’t actually chase delivery people nearly as often as they do in cartoons, but … Read More
Introducing Dogs to One Another
Most dogs like to make friends with other dogs. As pack animals, when dogs meet one another they immediately check each other out through sniffing and body language, to establish their pecking order. This is best accomplished by giving the … Read More
Excessive Barking in the Yard
Barking. It’s one of the things that dogs do. In fact, there are occasions when it’s a benefit to have a dog who barks. If there were a stranger entering your property or if something were genuinely amiss, a barking … Read More
Outdoor Doggy Destruction
Spring is here! Birds are chirping, squirrels are scampering and flowers are sprouting. It is at this time of year that many people feel it would be a shame for their dog to spend the day indoors while the family … Read More
Should You Get a “Movie Star” Breed?
Kids and adults alike usually enjoy the antics of the dogs who have graced our movie and television screens for years. Most of us remember Lassie, Benji, and Rin Tin Tin from our childhoods. In more recent years, dogs have … Read More
Lampshades on Dogs (Elizabethan Collar)
Most dog owners will eventually have the experience of their pet having surgery. Whether it’s a simple spay or neuter, or a more serious operation, the majority of dogs will have a procedure performed at one time or another. One … Read More
House Training Accidents in a Certain Spot
Without question, house training is one of the top priorities for dog owners. While we all expect puppies to require house training, there are many older dogs who have ongoing confusion too. One of the most frequent housebreaking dilemmas is … Read More
Socializing Your Dog
Socialization is one of the most important aspects in having a well-behaved dog. Those who are not socialized properly may exhibit all sorts of behavior problems ranging from fear and timidness, to dominant behavior or even aggression. If you have … Read More
Training Puppies to Sleep Through the Night
Having a new puppy is such an exciting time. Their playful antics, watching them explore and snuggling up are all some of the positives we enjoy. But when it comes to sleeping through the night, puppies can take some time … Read More
Dog Car Problems or Sickness
Dogs can be fun traveling companions, and some people are lucky enough to have friends and family who welcome their furry friend. The majority of dogs love to go on car rides, but there are some who are very afraid … Read More
Training Baby Puppy Dogs
While there are many differences between the way pets think and the way people think, when it comes to training baby pets there are lots of similarities too. One similarity is consistency. Many people assume that their puppy or kitten … Read More
Avoiding Dog Fights
Living with multiple dogs is very different than having just one. For example, when one dog goes outside in the rain, he tends to simply do his business and come back in, while two dogs together might choose to play … Read More
Planning on Giving a Pet As a Gift?
It is often said that “hindsight is 20/20,” and I’m sure that every one of us have wished at one time or another that we’d had foresight instead. Giving a pet as a gift is one of those situations that … Read More
The Joys of Pets
Whether you have a dog or a cat, bird, fish or hamster, there are many joys our pets can bring throughout the year. Just as grandparents can enjoy the wonders of youth through their grandchildren, so can we all enjoy … Read More
Have a Doggy New Year
It’s that time of year again. Holiday festivities are coming to an end and with the start of a new calendar year, there is a feeling of fresh beginnings. With cooler temperatures outdoors, no big events on the horizon, and … Read More
Preparing For a New Pet
If you’re considering a new pet, it’s very important to make sure that both the children and the adults in the household know what to expect before making a final decision. For example, when children visualize a puppy, they often … Read More
Holiday Dangers for Dogs & Puppies
It’s the time of year when many people begin decorating their homes for the Christmas season. But some of the festive decorations we enjoy can be dangerous for pets, especially in households that have mischievous puppies or rambunctious adult dogs. … Read More
Bones Don’t Love Dogs
Without a doubt, dogs love bones. Chewing is very important to dogs, because it helps keep their teeth clean, their gums healthy and gives them something to do. Most pet owners like to give their dogs bones for these reasons, … Read More
Eye-Level Snack Stealing
How do you serve your appetizers when company visits? Do you put your cheese and crackers right on the coffee table, at dog eye level? Or is that something you would not do because it would be a free-for-all for … Read More
Halloween Safety Tips For Dogs
Halloween can be a fun time of year for kids, adults, and even our pets. But just as we take safety measures with our children, it’s also important to do the same with our dogs and cats. Keep in mind … Read More
Dogs on Chains
Most pet owners realize the value of their pets and provide them with loving homes, plenty of food and water, shelter, attention, and veterinary care. Some particularly lucky ones even have a box of toys, a comfy dog bed and … Read More
Dog Training in Autumn
Autumn is a great season to train your dog or puppy. With the cooler weather, there’s less worry about heat exhaustion, and there are plenty of sights, sounds and smells for you and your dog to experience. Obedience training is … Read More
Walking Your Dog for Good Behavior
When most people think of walking their dog, they usually think of their dog or puppy “doing their business,” or simply getting some exercise. But there are many other, very important reasons to walk your dog, and you may be … Read More
Preparing for Pets in an Emergency
With all of the suffering that has gone on during this year’s hurricane season, it should be a wakeup call to anyone who doesn’t have an emergency plan for themselves, their children, and their pets. One thing that has been … Read More
Barking For Attention
What is it about the telephone that makes others want attention? Not only do children come running as if the phone is a magnet, and spouses often interject repeatedly, but many dogs bark for attention too! Whether it’s while you’re … Read More
Goofy Dog Syndrome
Jumping up. Pulling like a maniac. Zooming through the house while intermittently ricocheting off of furniture. Wanting to play 25 hours a day. Too much coffee? Of course not. It’s goofy dog syndrome! When most people imagine getting a dog, … Read More
Helping Pet Survivors of Hurricane Katrina
As pet lovers, one thing I’m sure has been on all of our minds, is the heartbreak and tragedy befalling the pets of Hurricane Katrina victims. Perhaps like me, you’ve tried to imagine what it would be like to be … Read More
Puppies & Older Dogs Together
Have you ever noticed that children like to play endlessly, rarely tiring of their youthful antics while most adults like to play for awhile and then relax a bit? Well, the same situation applies to puppies and adult dogs! Dogs … Read More
Submissive or Excitement Wetting
Some dogs or puppies have a problem wherein they accidentally tinkle a bit when they get excited or are feeling submissive. This can be very annoying when visitors arrive and get their shoes sprinkled on, or at the very least, … Read More
Children’s Fear of Dogs
Some children may suffer with a fear of dogs which might be difficult for adults to understand. Perhaps the child has never had a bad experience with a dog, or they may even be fine with their own dog at … Read More
Helping Your Dog or Puppy Adjust to a Change in Schedule
As the beginning of the school calendar draws near, many people’s schedules change. Those who work in schools, as well as parents, students and others, will have a much different schedule than during the lazy days of summer. Other times … Read More
Dogs & Humans… Creatures of Habit?
One thing dogs and humans have in common, is that we’re both creatures of habit. Once we settle into routines, doing the same things day in and day out, some behaviors become a habit… and habits can be hard to … Read More
Dog & Puppy Chewing Problems
Chewing is an issue which occurs most often with puppies, but sometimes adult dogs have this problem too. Puppies tend to explore the world with their mouths. A shoe with an interesting odor?… Let’s see what it tastes like! However, … Read More
Should You Consider a Rescued Dog or Puppy?
People often express that they’d like to adopt a dog or puppy, but are worried about the dog’s past, or are concerned that their new dog may not bond well with their family. However, this is quite the opposite of … Read More
Territorial Marking Dog Training Tips
If your dog is lifting his leg along your furniture, trash can, or other areas of your home, you have more than just a housebreaking issue… you also have a respect problem. More common with male dogs, but also sometimes … Read More
Canine Cleanup
When nature calls, no doubt dogs will answer. Cleaning up after your dog or puppy is important for many reasons, and this article will help you understand some reasons why, as well as providing some tips for making the job … Read More
Are Your Kids Ready For a Dog or Puppy? A Quiz For Kids & Parents
Many parents find themselves being asked over and over, “When can we get a dog?” Most adults realize how much of a responsibility a new dog or puppy can be, but for kids the following quiz can be a real … Read More
The Grouchy Dog Days of Summer
When temperatures start to really rise, even the most mild mannered people can get a little testy… and likewise for our dogs! This is a time when parents need to take extra measures of precaution to protect both children and … Read More
Training Your Dog or Puppy Not to Bolt Out of Doors or Gates
A common problem for many dog or puppy owners is training pets not to run out when doors or gates are opened. Particularly in households with children (who often go in and out of the house or yard) or lots … Read More
Training Dogs and Cats to Coexist in Your Home
What do you think of when you think of dogs and cats together? Many people envision the traditional cartoon of the dog who is constantly plotting about how to catch the cat, while the cat is always planning how to … Read More
Dog or Puppy’s Fear of Fireworks
As Independence Day approaches, many pet owners become concerned about their dog or puppy’s reaction to fireworks. While some pets may be completely unaffected, others can become downright traumatized! By understanding how dogs think and working on some simple training … Read More
Vacationing With Your Dog or Puppy
As you make your travel plans, they may very well include your dog or puppy. Planning in advance and bringing along some needed items can help make things go much more smoothly for you, your pet, and your host. For … Read More
Special Dog Training Tips for Teacher’s Pets
When summer or other time off draws nearer, there is a certain scent of promise in the air… only a few more weeks till school’s out! These are times of year when many teachers and other school personnel may start … Read More
Dog Education… Not Just For “Bad” Dogs
Most people get a dog expecting man’s best friend, but instead may find themselves being irritated by their pet on a daily basis. The majority of the time, the problem is that the dog simply hasn’t been taught what’s expected. … Read More
Teaching Dogs to Use a Designated Bathroom Area
Many gardeners are also avid pet lovers. A common dilemma is keeping lawns in tip-top shape in spite of the family dog! Land mines are definitely not a virtue when it comes to your landscape, but there are steps you … Read More
Swimming With Your Dog
Whether in a lake, the ocean, or a plastic baby pool, lots of pet owners like to include their dog in their fun summer activities. Some breeds are more inclined to enjoy the water than others. However, no matter what … Read More
Teaching An Old Dog New Tricks
“You can’t teach an old dog new tricks”, says the old wives tale…and many adult dogs want us to think that too! Actually, puppies and adult dogs are usually about equal as far as dog training challenges. Puppies may not … Read More
House Training Supplies Checklist
As promised, here is the housebreaking checklist directly from my book, Everything You Need to Know About House Training Puppies & Adult Dogs. House Training Supplies Checklist from “Everything You Need to Know About House Training Puppies & Adult Dogs”, … Read More
Timid or Shy Dogs
Some dogs are boisterous, outgoing and brave. Others are more timid and shy. Just like people, each dog has their own personality. Sometimes these differences can be a matter of genetics (nature), or can be learned through their life experiences … Read More
Tips to Tame a Digging Dog
While some dogs will dig at any time of year, digging is a problem which typically becomes more prevalent in warmer weather and/or during rainy seasons. With many smells beneath the surface, temptations of scampering squirrels and chirping birds, and … Read More
The Proverbial Rolled Up Newspaper
Remember the rolled up newspaper? Used by our grandparents and those before them, this was the accepted method of correcting one’s dog for any infraction. Perhaps you yourself have used a rolled up newspaper, either to whack the dog, or … Read More
Keeping Muddy Paws Off Your Floors!
Springtime in particular is a time of year when mud becomes an issue for many homes with dogs. Not only does the rain cause mud, but for our pets there are many new smells to explore on the ground. More … Read More
Choosing a Reputable Breeder
There are a few times of year when many people consider getting a new pet. One of those times is holiday season, and the other is summertime. However, there are many factors to consider when getting a dog, and making … Read More
Exercising With Your Pet
Starting an exercise program is a great thing to do…. and who better to go walking or jogging with than your dog? However, many pet owners find that initially, bringing their dog along was not as fun as they expected! … Read More
Barking Dog Problems
Every pet owner realizes their dog will sometimes bark. In fact, most people even want their dog to bark if someone comes to the door, or if there’s an unusual noise. After all, these are some of the benefits of … Read More
How-To: Underground Fence System
When a traditional fence is not an option, an underground fence might be a solution. But remember that although they keep your pet in, they don’t keep people or animals out! Therefore, if your dog is aggressive, or you live … Read More
Play Items -vs- Prey Items
Most dog owners enjoy treating their dog to a new toy or bone every now and again. But there are certain types of chew items that can be non-conducive to a well behaved pet! When your dog enjoys a toy … Read More
Home Alone… Training Tips for Dog’s Separation Anxiety
Separation anxiety is a problem wherein a dog is very anxious when left alone. Symptoms can include: whimpering, salivating, barking, housebreaking accidents, chewing, excessive licking, scratching or digging. Some dogs may even show symptoms when owners go into another room … Read More
Kids & Dogs… A Dog is Not a Horse!
Have you ever seen that movie, “Homeward Bound?” You know, the one with the boy whose family goes on vacation and leaves their pets in the care of friends? The golden retriever, American bulldog, and fluffy cat love the boy … Read More
Fun & Games
Most dogs were originally bred to perform a job, such as hunting or herding. Nowadays, the majority of dogs are simply enjoyed as pets. However, an intelligent dog who doesn’t have enough to think about can become mischievous… creating his … Read More
Dog Days of Winter
As outdoor temperatures become cool, owners of pets that live outdoors need to be extra concerned. Cold weather can seem very harsh to your pet, and most of our domesticated dogs are simply not cut out to live outdoors. All … Read More
Play Biting
Puppy owners often wonder just how much nipping is normal. With their razor sharp puppy teeth, it can sometimes feel like you’ve got a little baby alligator instead of a dog! Some amount of nipping is completely normal… although not … Read More
Canines on the Couch
Many dog or puppy owners allow their pets on the furniture. To some extent, this is a personal preference… after all, if you don’t mind the dog hair on the couch, why not? However, muddy paws set aside, there are … Read More
A Tired Dog Is a Good Dog!
Feeling frazzled by your frisky Fido? While humans may have hectic days, dogs generally do not! If your dog seems to be restless, energetic or mischievous it could be a result of your busy lifestyle, or even the simple fact … Read More
The Learning Curve: Teaching Your Dog or Puppy HOW to Learn
The learning curve is an extremely important aspect of any education… human or canine! Just as children need to develop good study habits for maximum achievement in school, the same holds true for dogs. Your dog must learn the difference … Read More
New Year’s Resolutions For Dog Lovers!
It’s time to ring in the New Year! A great time for new beginnings, new goals or getting back on track with old ones. Human nature makes us all become complacent occasionally. But when it comes to our pets, reduced … Read More
Holiday Hazards!
Holidays are a time to enjoy with family and friends, sharing our appreciation for all things great and small. Most of us have much to be thankful for and it’s important to enjoy this time to reflect upon that. Thanksgiving … Read More
A New Family Pet?
Most people know not to give pets as gifts, but might be considering a new pet for their own household. Perhaps the children have been pleading for a dog, or you finally feel ready after losing a pet. Whatever the … Read More
Counter-Surfing Canines!
Some dogs are tall and some are short…. but just about any dog can reach appetizers on a coffee table! Whether your pet is large enough to reach the kitchen counter, or small enough to only swipe crackers from a … Read More
Pouncing Pooches!
Whether you receive only occasional visitors, or have a very busy household, a jumping dog can be a problem. Neighbors stopping by, friends for a dinner party, and your children’s friends coming over, can all be exciting situations for your … Read More
Crate Training is Great Training!
Whether you have a puppy or an adult dog, a crate can be an invaluable tool for training. Inherently den animals, most dogs enjoy the security of their own space, and when used correctly (never for punishment), the crate can … Read More
Doggy Dining Dilemmas…
The average pet owner will surely admit that no one is perfect, including our dogs! When it comes to dog training, each family must decide for themselves which issues are important, and which can be overlooked. However, some things are … Read More